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You’re here because deep down you know that change is possible.
The source of clarity is already within you and always has been.
It’s so much simpler than it seems.
Maybe you find yourself asking questions like...
How can I manage my anxiety?
Is it worth trying to save my marriage or relationship?
Why is parenting so hard?
How can I move forward after loss or betrayal?
What can I do to motivate myself?
How can I become more confident?
Why do I feel like something is missing?
Maybe you don’t have a specific question...
Perhaps you sense that there is something more to life than you’re currently seeing.
Maybe you have tried out different approaches and strategies with limited success, and don’t know where to turn.
You may be feeling “off track”, stuck, or like you don’t quite fit in.
I’m Katy, a certified Clarity Coach.
I know what it's like to struggle.
What you’re looking for is already within you.
I can point you back to it.
You can read my story further down the page.
Where shall we start?
First Steps
“I feel like there could be something more to life than I’m currently seeing. I’m curious and want to start exploring without making any commitments.”
Meet me in your inbox, right here in my blog, or on social media.
Includes:
Insightful weekly articles on the messy bits of being human
PDF guides, including Taking the Struggle out of Parenting
Audio courses, including The Magic of Listening
Free and always will be.
30-minute Reset
“I’ve got something on my mind that I’d love to shift. I want to feel lighter, but without any commitment.”
A one-to-one session where we get to the heart of one thing that’s weighing on your mind.
You leave with a new way of seeing it and no obligation.
Get my weekly emails for access to booking slots.
Complimentary.
No repeat bookings.
Limited number available each month.
The Circle
“I like the idea of exploring this with others. I want an affordable way to dip my toe in the water, be supported as I look in a new direction, and connect with others doing the same.”
A twice-monthly group coaching call where we explore, from a completely different perspective, themes that everyone recognises from their own lives.
Email me to register your interest, and I'll be in touch.
£49 per month.
3-month minimum commitment.
Try it first with a £15 taster session.
This is credited against your first month if you join.
Clear Path
“I know something’s been keeping me stuck. I’m ready to see it clearly and move forward with a fresh perspective. I want the benefits of one-to-one coaching.”
Bespoke one-to-one coaching over six months.
Includes:
12 x 60-minute sessions
Voice-note or email support between sessions
Recording shared via private link after each call
Email me and we'll arrange a chat to see if this is right for you.
Pay in full £2,595
3 monthly payments £910
6 monthly payments £468
Deep Clarity
“I’m ready to go all in. I want lasting change across all areas of my life, and to rediscover joy in the everyday. This is my investment in myself.”
Bespoke one-to-one coaching over twelve months.
Includes:
1 x 90-minute session
23 x 60-minute sessions
Voice-note or email support between sessions
Recording shared via private link after each call
One bonus short-notice 15-minute check-in call
Email me and we'll arrange a chat to see if this is right for you.
Pay in full £4,995
3 monthly payments £1,750
6 monthly payments £900
My story
I spent many years feeling flawed. I often felt like an outsider and somehow different to “normal” people. I took other people’s opinions of me very seriously and tried to do things “right”. I thought it was my job to please other people, so I made myself smaller and used a lot of my energy on behalf of others. I took the discomfort I felt about setting boundaries as a signal that I didn’t really have the right to do it. So I frequently wound up exhausted and resentful.
I would second-guess every decision I made. I would go all in on something and then change my mind. I would ask myself, “Have I done the right thing?” or, “Would I be happier doing something else?” I would regret decisions I’d already made, asking at 3am, “How could I have been so stupid?” It was relentless.
From the outside my life probably looked fine, with a degree, a family, a job as a part-time primary teacher and a nice house. But on the inside, I was quietly struggling.
What's different about this?
I tried therapy and it helped at the time, but the same patterns would just reappear later. I found the world of personal development and got to work on trying to make myself a better person. But nothing seemed to stick and trying to make other people’s strategies and practices work for me just gave me another thing to beat myself up about when they didn’t work or I didn’t stick to them.
At my lowest point, I stumbled across a conversation that changed everything. I began to see that my thoughts and feelings don’t mean anything about me. They’re just what’s happening right now. They can really feel like they mean something, but they don’t. Knowing this makes a huge difference when a low mood descends or a thought like “I’m a loser” pops up. Seeing it for myself has set me free from the prison of my own thoughts. It’s hard to believe now that I used to be so hard on myself and take my thoughts so seriously. These days, when I catch myself wondering, “Have I done the right thing?”, my response is usually just, “Oh, that thought again”, and life carries on.
It’s changed how I am with people, too. I feel so much more able to be myself, because I know other people’s opinions of me don’t mean anything about me. And I can be with someone who sees the world very differently, get curious, and really listen to them. It’s beautiful.
Knowing that I wanted to share what I had discovered with others, I trained with Jamie Smart to gain certification as a Clarity Coach in 2020. Since then, I have been coaching one-to-one as well as working with schools and youth groups, and have continued to deepen my own understanding. I point people back to the source of clarity and wellbeing that has always been within them, so that they can break free from whatever is holding them back and make the most of their unique and precious lives.
More than anything, I want you to know that you were never broken and don’t need fixed.
You can hear more about why my approach is different in my short video, “What’s different about this?” You can also explore areas of interest to you in my blog articles. If you’re ready to take it further, see the different options above.